The more a person's age (the older), the more he grow up, because it has been considered and downs during his life.
If my opinion? Of course not! Why, why?
In the ultimate man, is when the age increases, it is hoped also that he has matured and has the appropriate level of maturity. Many parents of antiquity, has always considered self-righteous than their children. Not really miss it, they think their children have entered the age of 17 years and over which it has been prepared and cooked in maturity for a wedding. One thing that I do not approve of.
Maturity is not determined by how old the age of the person. Because, in reality, not all old people (older) has a maturity of manhood itself accordingly. Not a few people who have not yet found his maturity or old just does not want to grow up.
Your lack of desire to be an adult, in this case it is not always behave like a little kid like, which always wants to play and hold you know. However, lack of desire for someone to grow up is shown by the lack of sense of responsibility of the circumstances in him. Ketida his willingness to see the real world by continuing to be in "the room 'selfishness itself.
What, when you've become a parent, you already have your maturity in this life menyingkapi? The answer - not necessarily your friends ...
I have a real example that I encountered myself. The story of a family in which it proves, age and role in life was not a reflection of the maturity of self.
This family story begins with a love story like a partner who is intoxicated abysmal, call it Rini & Alex Knowing both sides are equally good, including the two decide to get married even this man, yet also old enough, where the woman was then and 29-year-old brother was 32 years old.
"Alex is a good and patient, so it seems like he is the right man to be my husband." Rini said in a babble of happiness. Similarly, Alex who saw Rini as both a submissive girl. Short stories, they also married, and had a child. In the course of real life in the ocean, then visible, it is quite old (old), their role as husband and wife and parents are not well reflect a maturity in thinking, acting and making decisions.
Every person alive, is impossible without a problem. But all of die to ourselves, how we menyingkapi wisely and learn to become adults. Meanwhile, what is done by Rini & Alex would destroy their own lives. Alex, who has spent working hard, to get a position as a manager in his company, suddenly took his wife out of work without prior discussion. "Wahhh I ama very bete my boss, job angry Mulu. I emang dimarahin hell on! Mending wrote me out! "Alex muttered to his friend in a cafe at lunch together. And, since then, Alex was also submitted his resignation which was immediately, it-was the chagrin of her co-workers.
Alex can only advance "cooling down" and think more wisely, may not be a sudden decision and is not responsible for it. Not a problem he did not discuss with his wife first, but where the sense of responsibility towards the family. A level of maturity in his life, is to contribute to think about every action taken has strong connectivity with the closest people. How do you think?
Is even worse, because such acts sparked outrage in the household fire that led to their breakup. An Alex who also was a father, not at all bothered when his wife and son left him. There is also no effort from Alex to maintain a family unit, let alone attempt to keep in touch with his own son.
Same thing with the story of his Lola & Rudi who had been married a dozen years and has three children. Rudi plunges himself into acts of fraud, which resulted in economic decline of the family below zero. Long story short, instead of Rudi is bounced back, trying to be responsible for the survival of his own family, he chose the safe path for himself, that just eat and sleep without any effort. No work, no effort, his days are filled with eat-sleep-pee (sorry) only. While his wife had to toil with his family to sell. However, it still did not budge Rudi and choose to "not doing anything" in his life. Crazy .......
afra-civic-expresscom-2.jpg Well, still think that maturity is evidenced by its age?
It is a choice of adult life. Choice if we want to grow or remain closed and enjoy the wonderful world of "ego" of our own. Life is not about themselves. However, life and maturity comes with the people around us, whether close or not close. Maturity to determine the attitude and the decisions we make, not only for ourselves but no effect for the people around us.
I so remember the tagline of a tobacco advertisement which is long enough, that "it must have Ageing, Becoming Adult's Choice". Human life must always be growing every year old (because no one is always getting any younger, right?) Then, as we age people, not necessarily the age of maturity also increases. Now, all depends on ourselves. The choice is in our hands, in your hands.
Find yourself, and be an adult human. Because the return on maturity Questions earlier. The Adult's define the real you. Maturity to determine the quality of your own life.
Well, the option to contribute to adult values terpancarkan quality of life in this journey in life.
So, what are your options?
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